An Epic Cure for Your Writer's Block

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Welcome back for another week of glorious Sacred Women’s Business and a new look ezine. It was high time for a change. I have Kate Nutt Photography to thank for a number of photos she took in and around her gorgeous studio in Brunswick Heads last year. Thank you Kate, I still love using the photos you took and they are such a testament to your skill as a photographer. I have never liked having my photo taken. Previous to Kate’s shoot I was always camera shy. Ever since the shoot, I have been more comfortable with visibility and this has made a massive difference to my business. Take note – if I can do it so can you in your own life and business.

My gratitude extends greatly also to my virtual assistant and Graphic Designer, Kari Turbeville  who is such a valuable asset to Sacred Women’s Business. Without Kari, I would never have been able to build my coaching practice to what it is today. I marvel constantly at Kari’s deeply thoughtful and generous talent. It brings warmth to my heart to think that we found each other on and have been able to enjoy a flourishing connection ever since. The fact that Kari is all the way over in South Carolina whilst I’m here Down Under is such a testament to the new global playing field that supports women to work from home and connect to each other across the globe. I feel fortunate that we live in such a time that women have opportunities that were previously unavailable, to work from home as well as form valuable connections from their home offices. Thank you for all that you are Kari, you are such a deep blessing.

This week I have written an article about an epic cure for your writer’s block. I’m busy finishing the final edit of my manuscript  Healing the Heart of Your Business so that I can send it off to the proof readers for a final edit. I’ve also been chatting with a book cover designer about the book cover and will be giving you a sneak peek of this as soon as it’s done. I’m so excited about the book cover design because I made a decision to do this my way – a luxury of choosing to self-publish. I purchased my all-time favourite artist Belinda Paton’s painting ‘Freedom’ ( and bought the copyright to use the image for my book cover. The painting now proudly hangs in my kitchen above my vitamin cupboard. Come to think of it, the beauty in the painting probably does just as much or even more for my well-being than the vitamins stored underneath it when I look at it every day. It’s soul medicine. Every woman with a sensitive soul knows how important it is for her to have things of beauty and creative expression in her life to sustain her.

You can imagine how delighted I was when I visited one of my client’s homes and discovered that she had Belinda Paton paintings hanging in several rooms! Talk about like-minded kindred spirits and a sense of de-ja-vu and true connection.

I hope you enjoy my article this week about an epic cure for writer’s block. I’ll share how I cured my writer’s block after two decades of struggle and finally got around to giving myself permission to write.

I’d love to hear what you think and warmly invite you to make a comment below.

An Epic Cure for Writer’s Block

When I was growing up, I was called to the principal’s office to be commended for a short story that I’d written about narrowly avoiding a dugite snake bite whilst swinging on a swing set at the local park. It had been a close shave, having a deadly snake brushing past my feet. Apparently, my story had captured the moment well. The principal said that my story was going to be sent away to a writing competition to be judged and that it might even win a prize as it was a very fine effort. I was around nine years old and it was at a time when Enid Blyton books had consumed every waking moment for me and many other girls. I waited and waited to hear the results of the competition. Nothing ever came back. I never heard who the winners were either and I never asked. I was too shy. In addition, I was too embarrassed that I hadn’t won anything. Defining moment number one: I am not a good enough writer.

In early high school I heard about a girl my age (13) who had published her first book of fiction. I started to write my own. It was an elaborate story about a mokey pokey, some kind of strange hybrid creature that really didn’t have much purpose. I spent an entire Christmas holiday break slaving away at a book that felt directionless because I couldn’t find an ending to the story. Eventually I just gave up and put all my hard efforts in the bin. Defining moment number two added to defining moment number one: Not only am I not a good enough writer, but it’s impossible to finish a book.

My second degree at university I majored in Arts and Creative Writing. As soon as I finished uni, I wrote a manuscript based on my dad’s life. It was historical literary fiction. It was picked for a mentorship along with the prestigious prize opportunity of being introduced to the publishers at one of Australia’s top publishing houses Allen and Unwin. They read my sample chapters and told me to polish up the manuscript and resubmit it to them with the view to it being published. It was a huge opportunity only reserved for a chosen few at the time. I completely lost my nerve. I never finished it. My painful divorce at the time had broken my self-esteem so much that I didn’t have the self-belief to push through with the dream. However, I can’t really blame divorce although I did at the time. The earlier beliefs that I’d formed meant that not only did I believe that I was not a good enough writer but also that it was impossible to finish a book. Defining moment number three: Writing a book is not realistic for me with all my issues, only for other people (who don’t have issues like mine).

By now, I have realised that what you seek is always seeking you. I have never stopped seeking ways to scratch the writer’s itch that has always been there. Despite being chronically blocked, a soul purpose is a soul purpose and will persist despite our best attempts to block it. Amidst the much loved work I was doing as a coach, therapist and yoga teacher, I knew I needed and wanted to write. Even if it wasn’t good enough, even if I couldn’t finish things and even if it wasn’t realistic for me to be a writer, none of those stopped the fact that I still had a desire to write. By now I was starting to see where I had formed unhelpful beliefs about myself that weren’t true and decided to honour the desire itself.

So I started small and committed to my blog. Just once a week on a Monday, all I had to do was write around 350 words. That’s all – not an entire chapter. Just nuggets and they didn’t even have to be perfect, I decided. I made a commitment to scratch the itch on my writer’s block and see where it took me. Then I did the one epic thing that’s guaranteed to cure writer’s block. I told my virtual assistant Kari that I’d have my piece of writing for my ezine and blog ready every Monday to send to her in South Carolina. I set myself up for accountability. I might not have been able to be accountable to myself but when someone else was relying on me, I was on top of my game. It’s one of my strengths and I needed all the strength I could muster.

Every week Kari would pretty it up and then send it out to my subscribers on Tuesday mornings. Every week for the past 88 weeks, it’s been put out there at least once and sometimes even twice, a week. Come rain, hail or shine, slippery snakes, sick kids and blocks as big as Everest I’ve written a blog. Believe me there’s been weeks where it’s a small miracle that it’s happened. I now firmly no longer believe that you should only write when inspiration strikes. You need to have discipline, it’s a practice and it’s something that gets easier the more regularly you engage with the page and find your real voice.

Miracles often start from small things that you think are insignificant. I’d been writing my blog for less than a year when I was approached by the fabulous Christine Marmoy to contribute to her anthology Manifesting in High Heels. I said yes – the book stood for all the values I ascribe to – collaboration with other amazing women and more power to women. I said yes to accountability and the book went on to become an Amazon best seller in over 5 categories. It was the one small piece of encouragement I needed to finally finish a manuscript I’d had ticking away in the background. Freaking. Awesome.

In the background, I’d decided that accountability was key and thanks to my blog writing, my writer’s block was slowly dissolving. So I engaged the services of a book coach Alex Mitchell from Author Support Services Alex was assigned to help me be accountable to write the manuscript that was brewing and stirring as a result of all that blogging, coaching, speaking and chapter writing I’d been doing. The beautiful thing is, accountability bears witness. When we are being watched and witnessed, even though it is uncomfortable at first, it has the brilliant effect of diluting fear. I can honestly say, I would have been a lot more self-conscious about revealing my manuscript to anyone let alone the general public if I hadn’t first unleashed it to my book coach.

There’s actually plenty of book coaches out there but what drew me to Alex immediately was that she truly does understand what writing a book entails. How do I know? Because on the home page of her website, she has a video of how tricky it is to catch a wild snake and put it in a bag. Go watch it! It’s exactly how it feels to write a book (especially if you’re me). It’s slippery, it’s hard, it’s awkward, it’s even dangerous! After my earlier short story about the dugite and as well as an intense personal experience with kundalini-rising, the snake held significance to me. My commitment to Alex was sealed when I learnt that she had also braved the wild frontier of single parenthood to two children for many years. That totally sold me. I could care less whether she’d ever coached someone to complete their book or whether she’d even been to university (which she has but it didn’t matter). All I cared about was that she got it. For those of you in business who don’t think your personal story has any relevance to your clients, think again. For those of you who believe that your life experiences are not equally as important (if not more so) to your qualifications think again.

Alex held me accountable. Poor Alex had to brave my fear of snakes so many times in our accountability journey it’s hard to even fathom. She’s had to endure my tales of woe about how hard it’s been to find time to write the damn thing whilst juggling a business, blogs, three house moves and single parenthood. I’m forever grateful to her for loyally sticking by me while I wrote Healing the Heart of Your Business. Many times, I’ve fallen short of my deadlines and many times I’ve wondered if it will ever be done. Patient, graceful and ever wise, Alex stayed the course with me. She persisted and her persistence meant that I had every reason to stay the course. My Malaysian heritage has ingrained in me the importance of saving face. Whenever I failed on one of our set deadlines, I’d recalibrate, take some breaths and keep going. Accountability to Alex was as much about keeping and saving face as it was about the need to write.

Today, a cyclone hit my township and we were warned to stay indoors. I’m so pleased I got some unexpected spare time. I polished the final edit and sent it to Alex for the final proof-read. I’ve found my fabulous book cover designer and can’t wait to share her work with you on the cover of my book. I’m so relieved I don’t have a publisher to deal with and that the world has turned on its axis enough times to change things in my favour towards self-publishing. I feel excited about the fact that the snake is almost in the bag. I can see myself tying up the loose ends now on Healing the Heart of your Business and I have to say I’m proud of it. At the end of the day, the book’s not really about me but about the message it contains about running a sustainable business for heart-centred women….Actually, it’s hard admitting this but it is about me. It’s about how I learnt to wrestle a snake into a bag despite being petrified. But I know deep down that I never would have done it if I’d kept it to myself and neglected to engage with accountability – the one epic cure to writer’s block. Sharing is caring. I’m not sure words do justice to the gratitude I feel towards Alex and the fact that I’m on the home stretch tying up the bag. I think I’ve well and truly caught the snake! He’s in the bag and I’m bringing him home.




If you’ve been yearning to make a difference and you love teaching yoga and children, then why not combine your loves for a whole new extraordinary career?

My cherished friend and a divine light in my community, Karen Wightman of Creative Yogi’s, has been teaching yoga at our local schools for many years now.  She’s putting everything she knows together to offer a uniquely hands-on level one training in children’s yoga teaching. This is one of the best trainings you could possibly ask for, delivered by an experienced and amazing lady. The places have been filling up quickly as Karen is offering limited places to make sure everyone receives the attention they need.

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  1. Virginia on February 24, 2015 at 10:11 am

    Congratulations on fulfilling your heart’s desire. We mostly write for ourselves and then to share with others. Your story inspires me to get back to some writing – just for fun.

  2. Star on March 1, 2015 at 8:19 pm

    What a heartfelt article Lisa! I loved hearing your journey, thank you for sharing! 🙂

    • Lisa on March 1, 2015 at 10:27 pm

      thanks darling – coming from you it means so much xxx

  3. Peggy on March 11, 2015 at 10:46 pm

    Hi Lisa,

    I, too, have sifted through all the garbage about being a writer and the lies we convince ourselves to be true. Not good enough, can’t finish it, you don’t have what it takes to push through the tough parts…yup. BTDT. Now it’s all about simply writing one word after another. Yup.


    • Lisa on March 12, 2015 at 9:31 pm

      Thanks Peggy, I’m so happy to hear that I’m not alone in my journey 🙂 and let’s celebrate continuing the writing journey regardless! Love Lisa xx

  4. Jacqueline Conroy on March 11, 2015 at 11:13 pm

    When we listen to others we really listen when they cannot connect with our personal story. One word or as you say one picture can let them know they have been truly heard. Hearing someone elses story is truly a privilege. Thanks for sharing catching that tricky slippery snake Liza x

    • Lisa on March 12, 2015 at 9:30 pm

      thanks so much Jacqueline, I really appreciate your positive encouragement. It’s really lovely to hear your thoughts, blessings to you, Lisa

  5. Debra Reble on March 12, 2015 at 6:20 am

    Thank you Lisa as this article was so timely. I too am working on the finishing touches of my new book and I’ve hit a wall with the organization of some of the chapters. I so appreciate your openness and honesty with your own process. Such a blessing you are…:) And love the artwork…so beautiful

  6. Pamela Thompson on March 12, 2015 at 8:24 am

    Hi Lisa,
    Thanks for sharing your story about the cure to writer’s block and congratulations on your book. I look forward to reading it! It’s so true that making a commitment to others does help us to move forward in our lives whether it be to finish a book or launch a new business. I so relate and am close to you in your process. My first book is almost finished. Am going through the edits and have a launch date of June 9th. Enjoy the rest of your book journey!

    • Lisa on March 12, 2015 at 9:29 pm

      hi Pamela, how exciting for you! Congratulations on almost finishing your book. Please let me know when it’s ready. I’d love to hear more about it. Many blessings to you, love Lisa

  7. Teresa Morrow on March 12, 2015 at 2:13 pm


    You offer a great point (one I share with my clients and one I do myself)—take it one step at a time with your writing. You don’t have to write a whole book all at one time. However, finding someone who will keep you accountable is good too so you can complete your goal.

    Nice post! And congrats on your book! WHOOHOO!


  8. Deb Coman on March 15, 2015 at 6:34 am

    Lisa, I thoroughly enjoyed reading this post and cheering along for you in your quest to get the snake in the bag. I so look forward to your book. You are a writer. You can a book. And it is realistic for you. I’m so happy for your success!

    • Lisa on March 15, 2015 at 8:26 pm

      thanks so much Deb, I really appreciate you stopping by to make such an encouraging comment. I love your work! Love Lisa xx

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